It’s been a while since I read “The Essentials of Fabulous.” I meant to review it soon after finishing it, but a couple of months have passed, and my memory needs a bit of a jog! This book frequently comes to mind because it has some key insights on what it takes to feel and be fabulous in everyday life.
Written by Ellen Lubin-Sherman, a writer, coach, and consultant on fabulosity, the book isn’t just about looking good. It’s about becoming a fabulous person overall. Ellen guides readers through ten essential traits of truly fabulous people:
– They are passionate about life.
– They are genuinely authentic.
– They are admired for their wonderful attitude.
– They are warm and approachable.
– They have flair.
– They possess impeccable manners.
– They are competent.
– They just “get it.”
– They have a wide range of interests and abilities.
– They stand out online.
– They have a supportive network of people.
Ellen starts with passion, which she believes is the key to being fabulous. I couldn’t agree more. A passionate life is full of adventure and possibilities. Another crucial trait is authenticity: learning to accept and believe in your strengths. Ellen suggests asking friends to help you identify these qualities.
Attitude is also vital. Having a positive outlook can make you fun to be around in various situations. Her advice: don’t take yourself too seriously, be happy with what you can do, and don’t stress about your limitations. She also has great tips on clothing: wear your best outfits and save nothing for later. Looking good and feeling like the most amazing person can shape your life narrative positively.
Ellen continues to break down each component of being fabulous:
– Warmth: Be accessible and listen to others.
– Flair: Wear clothes that stand out.
– Manners: Always be courteous.
– Competence: Be capable and ask for help when needed.
– Bandwidth: Connect with people from all walks of life.
– A supportive board: Have a group of individuals who know you well and can offer their expertise.
When it comes to dressing fabulously, she recommends comfortable, high-quality clothing that makes you feel happy and confident. Some basics include:
– Black pants
– Grey cardigan
– Simple white cotton shirt
– Safari-style jacket in olive drab
– Trouser-inspired jeans
– A classic raincoat
– Lots of accessories
Ellen emphasizes having a closet full of perfect basics that can be dressed up with great accessories. Ultimately, a truly fabulous woman knows her own unique style.
In conclusion, I found “The Essentials of Fabulous” to be an interesting and insightful read. Ellen offers plenty of practical tips and reminders on how to become more fabulous. Each chapter ends with additional resources for further reading. Ellen’s standards are high, and becoming the fabulous person she describes might be challenging. However, striving to be a bit more fabulous each day can brighten your life and the lives of those around you.