It’s never easy to talk about, but with the recent, unexpected passing of a family member and attending their funeral, I realized this topic needs more attention. While funeral dress codes have become more relaxed over the years, I believe it’s still important to dress respectfully for such occasions.
When I was in The Netherlands, I noticed that people wore all sorts of outfits to funerals, including sneakers, jeans, and brightly colored clothes. Personally, I think this is not appropriate. I feel it’s important to make an effort to dress respectfully and moderately. I would love to hear your thoughts on this.
Here are some of my guidelines on what to wear to a funeral:
1. Opt for muted colors. Black is a great choice, but dark, subdued colors work as well.
2. You don’t need to dress all in black. A suit with a white or light shirt is also suitable.
3. Prints are acceptable if they are subtle and in dark, muted tones.
4. Avoid dressing too fashionably. The goal is to pay your respects, not to stand out.
5. Dresses, skirts, and pants can all be appropriate.
6. Aim for elegance.
7. Keep your outfit modest and avoid showing too much skin.
8. You can add a personal touch, depending on the person being remembered.
9. If wearing a dark overcoat, you can lighten it up with a scarf in a different color or print to soften the look.
I understand these guidelines are quite general and tailored to western culture, so I’d like to hear your views. What is considered appropriate funeral attire in your country or culture? Do you think there should be a dress code for funerals, or should anything go?